February 3rd, 2010 by Paul Harris
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I always have a hard time shopping for Valentine’s Day. My girlfriend doesn’t like chocolate because it makes her put weight on, and she doesn’t like flowers because they don’t last longer than a week. This reduces my options. Books are nice, but I don’t tend to listen to her so I don’t know what she likes.
I did find some books at Barnes & Noble – some of those vampire chick lit ones (Twilight & Vampire Academy – don’t ask me which ones, I’m not sure). And I was able to get them at a reduced price. I found a coupon code for them, so I got a massive 10% off – cool!
And that’s the best of both worlds: I can get her a book I’m sure she’ll like and I don’t have to shell out $60 for a “fancy” present she might not even like anyway. Shopping done!
January 26th, 2010 by Paul Harris
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The philosophy of life reveals that in human relationships the biggest loss in not when a person whom you 
love dies, but the biggest loss is when relationship dies & people are still alive. Life after marriage often became very difficult when couples find themselves uncooperative to each other in daily matters. They are having discrepancies in mutual understanding that leads to severe stress for both the individuals & other occupants in the house. These stressful situations eventually end with complete separation in the form of Divorce. I believe divorce is the worst word for couples as it is very difficult to recover to normal & happy life after separation. It is a major life change, you will suddenly find yourself lonely to face the different challenges & have to manage all the finances for you & your children’s.
There might be a better life, that welcome you after divorce, now its all depends upon you that how you manage to treat with it. Don’t feel guilty for being divorce & don’t blame yourself or any other for all the mistakes, be optimistic & believe that everything happens for good. In case you need a job, start searching for it, be passionate! This is the time to show the best level of confidence & boldness, honestly don’t waste your time with regret. No matter which cast you belong to, weather it is asian women marriage or the case with a couple in united kingdom. The emotional aspects of divorce remain the same. However there are different aspects for divorce & separation in different societies but bring a human these feelings happens to most of the couples after separation. So all you need to do is to believe that another beautiful life is waiting for you. Life isn’t over; it’s just a new beginning for you.
January 25th, 2010 by Paul Harris
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One of the common problem that people face these days in relationships is the unknown nature of their attachments, you people might get the point from the title of the post as well, So is very important for you to understand the difference between being in love and bring in addiction with someone. These factors became more important in the case when you want a relationship worth keeping for your lifetime. Love & addiction both are natural things & every human face that but remember there is difference between them. So as a matter of fact love is not when you date with your classmate in a restaurant, give her a rose & express your feelings. One the other hand if a couple is having a relationship that last for more then an year then it is not sure that their relationship is based upon pure love..Devotion to someone & LOVE is unifying & sustainable.
Frankly speaking, being in love & being addicted to someone has same feeling in the beginning. But both have different results at the end, I have seen many people who get very strong emotional attachments with someone because they are addicted with them. Things like russian bride chat & social networks on the internet are the best examples. Chatting with people is addiction not devotion. Remember that true relationships are based on trust, if a person care for you then you can say that he or she is devoted. Always remember that most of the relationships that begins with dating & chatting is all your weak points. So count it as your addiction rather then thinking of it as a pure love.
December 30th, 2009 by Paul Harris
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Misunderstanding often occurs in relationships, few are genuine while most of them are timely, the core reason behind this is lack of communication between the two individuals or group, and even a small mistake can lead you to lose a trusted friend if you fail to communicate in a given circle of time. I am not talking about affairs & dating but want to highlight a collective approach. Especially in couples with arrange marriage this problem is very prominent. There is no way you can hurt the trust of someone if you make yourself open to him or her. So to make relationships strong always try to communicate openly & make a sense of affection & responsibility. I know with the passage of time our preferences, responsibility & way of our thinking changes but this doesn’t mean that we change the tome of our behavior with others.
However rebuilding a lost trust is not easy but one can’t says that its impossible. All you need to do is to think for a while & recall your mistakes. Then take a step forward for humble apologies. You know what kills a good relationship is lie, I know lying has some good results but that is temporary. In long run this is going to make you alone. so always speak truth. Be optimistic. & share everything that caused you to make your friend unhappy. Be transparent in your opinion & don’t keep secrets. In short you have to make sure that the other person has no curiosity for you. Be gentile & polite in your conversation, make it a habit, believe me people will again start loving you.
December 22nd, 2009 by Paul Harris
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Yes! Depression is one of the serious problems in our life these days, this is the silent killer, it breaks relationships and makes this beautiful earth hell for us. This is no surprise to know that not only couples but a lot number of teens are also suffering from depression either directly or indirectly. Do you know that 80% of the suicides are caused by depression? One thing I want to clear is that this is a disease, although there is a cause behind depression, being a little depressed at unwanted situation is normal behavior but when you make it a habit to feel sad for no definite reason, consider yourself in the grip of depression. Seriously this is not good for you so help yourself out to get rid of these unpleasant feelings.
Now the question arises that what are the possible ways to avoid depression. Interestingly 90% of the depression effected people didn’t actually know that they are suffering from it. It doesnot take someone with Masters Degree in Social Work who sees there types of cases to recognize that someone is depressed. its not untill they think about it seriously
Until they think about it seriously. The first cause about depression is being lonely. People who have no friendly people in their surroundings in their daily routine feel embarrassed & find their life enough for nothing, so they get depressed so easily. Secondly a person who is free & has no specific routine in their life, that people tends to think much for no reason. So the best thing is to always be in tough with faithful & good friends. Sports is best to avoid bad deeds, engage yourself in Sports fitness dating, for those who didn’t know about sports dating, you can find many resources to know about it on the internet. fun around at the weekends, do outing, long drives, parties & social networking, this all helps in making you happy that is good for you & the people surrounding you.
December 20th, 2009 by Paul Harris
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Wise people say that smile is a little thing in itself but the jolly it gives to others is ever lasting, this is totally
correct from the psychological point of view. I believe there is nothing good rather then to be the reason of smile on someone’s face. Yes the title of this post says it all. If you are friendly and supportive with people in your attitude. You are making a good approach to get the best value in the society. If you want to be respectful then you must have to respect others, yes you are right this world of give & take. The more you respect others the more you get regards from them, however in some case people try to avoid you but in most of the case you will get good response from your surroundings. There are many examples in the history where people conquer the whole nations & the whole continents just because of their friendly social interaction & supportive deeds.
No matter what type of people you are dealing with, all you need to understand is that every human is respectful. Believe me you will love it when a lot of people starts loving you. But this can only be archive with positive attitude. Don’t even bother to think wrong about anyone even if the person is rude with you. I know this is difficult to do at the beginning but I am sure you will get the fruit soon; you will realize it how delightful is to please someone. So weather you are going for love horse dating or going to join countryside dating. Learn the lesions of love. You will find the world more beautiful.
December 12th, 2009 by Paul Harris
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Its is a general conception that most of the couple at their older ages feels that they are not capable to do any job perfectly, but in actual they can do some tasks very perfectly. yes there are good to care for your newly born or slightly mature kid. i believe they can understand psychology of the child perfectly & so they can teach them all the good habits that even the parents cant do. so this is i believe the best option for couples or specially the housewives who unfortunately are impotent & loves to play with kids.
However the above suggestion is not for people who are happily married recently & are expecting their first
baby, yes! old couple can get registered themselves at any foster care & baby care institutions. this also helps in getting yourself accepted as the best & loving citizen. normally old aged people are ignored in most of the society as they need special care by their spouse & grand children. So why not to be be a part of wonderful world with no worries of the world. you will be given some training at the begin so that you can accomplish the job easily. i believe you will love this experiences so it is highly recommend to try it once.
One the other hand this is useful for couples who find it difficult to give their child proper time about guiding them for good habits & help them in their education. i mean you can avail this facility & enrolled your kids with the old couples for better learning & growth.
