With the arrival of online social networking & The advancement in telecommunication technology, people find it easy to communicate with friends & peers all together in a single platform from anyplace & at anytime, in one hand this is the best way to find you old classmate, colleague or neighbor but on the other hand, a recent study shows that websites like, facebook & many others are creating relationship clashes in peoples. Many cases of breakups has been observed last year since people started relying on facebook only for their social interactions & communication. Since communication in facebook is open to everyone that is added in your list, thus in many cases it creates misunderstanding, jealously & lost of trust between individuals.
Similarly, the online dating sites which provides a platform for couples to get familiar sets the worst examples in
marriage breakups. According to the recent survey in USA, about 60% of the marriages are unsuccessful in which the couples, for the first time meet each other at some online dating site. However I am not saying that online networking is the sole reason for most of marriage breakups in UK or America. But yes! We can assume that with the addiction of internet networking, it is certainly impossible to find the perfect person. Because you can’t judge the person until you spent few days with him. There is no surprise with the fact that in one hand online networking facilitates people to stay in touch with their friends & peers via an effective & easy medium, but at the same time when it came to couples & relationships. It might be the one of the cause for breakups.
If you are going to pick her from her home show the best level of courtesy this time, For example, Opening the doors of your car before she sit inside the car, Remember this time she notice your manner & behavior first & it has a direct impact on her, So don’t try to be over smart, don’t use nasty works during the conversation, Don’t call the waiter with stupid words, don’t pass discussing comments to the people sitting besides you. Be polite & soft in your speech. You can keep a ring hidden in your pocket & offer her that ring the while you say “I love you, will you marry me”.
love dies, but the biggest loss is when relationship dies & people are still alive. Life after marriage often became very difficult when couples find themselves uncooperative to each other in daily matters. They are having discrepancies in mutual understanding that leads to severe stress for both the individuals & other occupants in the house. These stressful situations eventually end with complete separation in the form of Divorce. I believe divorce is the worst word for couples as it is very difficult to recover to normal & happy life after separation. It is a major life change, you will suddenly find yourself lonely to face the different challenges & have to manage all the finances for you & your children’s.
Unfortunately due the the busy life style & stressful jobs we find it difficult to maintain a good sense of humor or even spend some time with humorous people. Yes you can laugh while watching funny cartoons or comedy shows at television but that is not going to help you to cope with your emotional stress. In real life scenarios we need real people to whom we share our feelings.
looks very awkward when your kid is just a 5 year old & you are having wrinkles on your face, so that is why i always recommend people to get marriage at the age of 22 to 28. child behavior is also changing with time, for example they are very obedient at their school going days, as they grow up & reaches their teen age, they are getting hyper & it is hard for most of the parents to make them organized & discipline in their studies & other social norms. the behaviors of the kids gets more worst in situations when their parents seems more older when they reached their teen age. they consider their parents the crazy old people & didn’t care about them. i know this is very painful for parents when their child didn’t obey them.
to find something interesting when it came to relationships & fishy expression in life. Hay!