Archive for the ‘Parenting’ category

Marriage Breakups, How online social networking are effecting relationsips.

March 8th, 2010

With the arrival of online social networking & The advancement in telecommunication technology, people find it easy to communicate with friends & peers all together in a single platform from anyplace & at anytime, in one hand this is the best way to find you old classmate, colleague or neighbor but on the other hand, a recent study shows that websites like, facebook & many others are creating relationship clashes in peoples. Many cases of breakups has been observed last year since people started relying on facebook only for their social interactions & communication. Since communication in facebook is open to everyone that is added in your list, thus in many cases it creates misunderstanding, jealously & lost of trust between individuals.

Similarly, the online dating sites which provides a platform for couples to get familiar sets the worst examples in marriage breakups. According to the recent survey in USA, about 60% of the marriages are unsuccessful in which the couples, for the first time meet each other at some online dating site.  However I am not saying that online networking is the sole reason for most of marriage breakups in UK or America. But yes! We can assume that with the addiction of internet networking, it is certainly impossible to find the perfect person. Because you can’t judge the person until you spent few days with him. There is no surprise with the fact that in one hand online networking facilitates people to stay in touch with their friends & peers via an effective & easy medium, but at the same time when it came to couples & relationships. It might be the one of the cause for breakups.

Jobs old couples can do perfectly

December 12th, 2009

Its is a general conception that most of the couple at their older ages feels that they are not capable to do any job perfectly, but in actual they can do some tasks very perfectly. yes there are good to care for your newly born or slightly mature kid. i believe they can understand psychology of the child perfectly & so they can teach them all the good habits that even the parents cant do. so this is i believe the best option for couples or specially the housewives who unfortunately are impotent & loves to play with kids.

However the above suggestion is not for people who are happily married recently & are expecting their first baby, yes! old couple can get registered themselves at any foster care & baby care institutions. this also helps in getting yourself accepted as the best & loving citizen. normally old aged people are ignored in most of the society as they need special care by their spouse & grand children. So why not to be be a part of wonderful world with no worries of the world. you will be given some training at the begin so that you can accomplish the job easily. i believe you will love this experiences so it is highly recommend to try it once.

One the other hand this is useful for couples who find it difficult to give their child proper time about guiding them for good habits & help them in their education. i mean you can avail this facility & enrolled your kids with the old couples for better learning & growth.

Kids and their role models

December 8th, 2009

Kids learn from their role models more actively, this is obvious during the first fifteen years when all the kids are at the stage of learning. They observe others & if they like any of their act, they try to adopt it in their personal life. Most of the parents today are worried about the negative role models kids choose to follow their actions. One of the reason is the electronic media like television where kids get inspired from different movie characters & try to copy their acts in personal life. Another reason is parents themselves when they didn’t give their kids a proper find adolescents engaged in different unethical activities, where their role model is some negative character from a movie. So I believe it’s the responsibility of parents to give their kids aproper time & help them to identify their best role model.

I know parents have more attachments with their child but it is not definite that good parents can act as role model for their child. Kids are continuously observing others & they want their role mode to be to be someone with inspiring attributes. This is one of the reasons why they easily get inspired from different movie stars & other celebrities without knowing him about their personal lives. So it’s all about the time & in the home atmosphere that you give to your child. If you allow your kids to watch television & movies all the time then you can’t expect good behavior from your kid. On the other hand if you often tell your kids about different successful personalities & give t that it is sure that they will get inspired from them come up with wonderful performances in the real life.

Be friendly, kids love to be your friends

October 21st, 2009

I always request parents to be friendly with their kids, this is very important for their grooming. You cant expect your kid to be good at anything until you give them a the hand of friendship. Kids loose their confidence & creative thinking in stressful situations. if you are strict to your kid. Remember confidence is the first step to success in the road of life. So if you want your kid to be bold & confident, you have give them proper time in a friendly way, You have to make sure that your kids consider you their best friends. This is very important to understand their feelings.

Yes! I agrees with the argument that to make your kids discipline you need to be struck with them, but you can do this in a friendly way as well. Punishments & restrictions are not good in a long run when you messed up the kids personal ego. So be friendly & you are all done to make your kid healthy & genius in any situation of their life.

Kids learning at early stages & parents responsibility

October 8th, 2009

A young kid can pick things more actively then the mature one. so that is the reason at the early years you need to be more active with your kids as far as their learning & education is concern, one of the mistake parents made at this stage is that they go for full time nursery or boarding school for their kids. this is what i believe a totally wrong concept that at early stages a child can learn better in a nursery. a kid can learn & grow well parents premieres, most of the parents, specially in the cases when both husband & wife are employed. most of the working mothers take this a burden to spare time to teach their kids. but this is very important for your kids at their first ten years of their life that you give them proper guidance in building their learning skills.

I know in boarding schools children are provided with a good environment for learning but on the other hand they are bound to follow a certain timetable of their daily routine. they feels this very sad in this situation. keeping the children happier is also important. if you force the kid to do a certain thing they lose their interest in it & follow it with a bad heart. this is just destroying the creativity of your kid. so if mothers are around the child while they are studying or watching television they feel secure & comfortable & can prove good results in their academics.

Parenting Community, learn from others experiences

October 2nd, 2009

Being a parent is no easy job. You are always learning new things every day and this is most apparent for first time parents. Thus, it is always beneficial if you have friends who are already parents themselves. You can share and learn from each other. However, if this is not possible, with the advent of technology, online parenting communities are always available.

One such community which I can recommend is Start-rite Parents Community. The power house behind this community is Startrite Shoes, an eighth generation family business. Startrite is a wholesaler whose brand retails through a network of over 400 independent and multiple retailers across the UK and internationally.

As a member, I had learnt so much about parenting from the other members. Besides making friends and getting parents advice, I also gained some useful knowledge such as how to choose a child’s first pair of shoes, the correct way to measure the feet, how to care for shoes and more. In a nutshell, you can find almost anything you need to know about being a parent via this community.

If that’s not enough reason to join, being a member of Start-rite Parents Community also qualifies you to enter a draw to win free shoes for a year! To learn more, just visit the community yourself.

Parents stress with their kids behaviour & the Wrinkles

September 30th, 2009

One of the negative outcome of the late marriage is that you are not in full energy to enjoy your time with your kids when you are back from the office or workplace. this is the known practice that as we age we face many health threats. i have seen many mothers with wrinkles surfaces on their faces after a couple of years from their marriage. this looks very awkward when your kid is just a 5 year old & you are having wrinkles on your face, so that is why i always recommend people to get marriage at the age of 22 to 28. child behavior is also changing with time, for example they are very obedient at their school going days, as they grow up & reaches their teen age, they are getting hyper & it is hard for most of the parents to make them organized & discipline in their studies & other social norms. the behaviors of the kids gets more worst in situations when their parents seems more older when they reached their teen age. they consider their parents the crazy old people & didn’t care about them. i know this is very painful for parents when their child didn’t obey them.

All the kids are not the same, but however if you are in stress due to the ignoring behavior of your child, don’t get disappointed. you can handle them easily. just you need a little practice to show yourself healthy, young & energetic all the time. you have to make sure that you didn’t look or behave like old people ( even if you’re old ). i recommend you to use the Best Wrinkle Cream to make your face looks younger & fresh, their are many products available in the market, if you have no idea about it then you can check Anti Wrinkle Cream Reviews for the suitable product for you. remember your kid didn’t like old people, they like the young & sharp one. so be young always, not in your look but also in your behavior. a man in actual is what he feel & think, so feel young & be young, this is a key to lead a stress free life with your kids.