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Marriage Breakups, How online social networking are effecting relationsips.

Paul Harris — Mon, 08 Mar 2010 19:31:10 +0000

With the arrival of online social networking & The advancement in telecommunication technology, people find it easy to communicate with friends & peers all together in a single platform from anyplace & at anytime, in one hand this is the best way to find you old classmate, colleague or neighbor but on the other hand, a recent study shows that websites like, facebook & many others are creating relationship clashes in peoples. Many cases of breakups has been observed last year since people started relying on facebook only for their social interactions & communication. Since communication in facebook is open to everyone that is added in your list, thus in many cases it creates misunderstanding, jealously & lost of trust between individuals.

Similarly, the online dating sites which provides a platform for couples to get familiar sets the worst examples in marriage breakups. According to the recent survey in USA, about 60% of the marriages are unsuccessful in which the couples, for the first time meet each other at some online dating site. However I am not saying that online networking is the sole reason for most of marriage breakups in UK or America. But yes! We can assume that with the addiction of internet networking, it is certainly impossible to find the perfect person. Because you can’t judge the person until you spent few days with him. There is no surprise with the fact that in one hand online networking facilitates people to stay in touch with their friends & peers via an effective & easy medium, but at the same time when it came to couples & relationships. It might be the one of the cause for breakups.

The Valentine’s Day Maze

Paul Harris — Wed, 03 Feb 2010 14:26:55 +0000

I always have a hard time shopping for Valentine’s Day. My girlfriend doesn’t like chocolate because it makes her put weight on, and she doesn’t like flowers because they don’t last longer than a week. This reduces my options. Books are nice, but I don’t tend to listen to her so I don’t know what she likes.

I did find some books at Barnes & Noble – some of those vampire chick lit ones (Twilight & Vampire Academy – don’t ask me which ones, I’m not sure). And I was able to get them at a reduced price. I found a coupon code for them, so I got a massive 10% off – cool!

And that’s the best of both worlds: I can get her a book I’m sure she’ll like and I don’t have to shell out $60 for a “fancy” present she might not even like anyway. Shopping done!

Are you expecting your first date? Follow these tips

Paul Harris — Wed, 27 Jan 2010 12:31:27 +0000

If you are going to propose your girlfriend this time & are planning to go out on a date this evening, we are here to help you in building a beautiful relationship; look at the tips below before started anything.

Don’t be so excited & nervous, don’t be foolish & kiddy this time; try to be natural and gentle. You should invite your girlfriend for the date either by telling him directly, or on the phone, or by sending her an invitation card. Once she accepts your invitation. You should find the best place to sit in a restaurant, it is better to reserve the place a day before; you can choose a good outdoor place in a park as well if you want to meet her in the evening time. Remember a bar is not a suitable place this time if you are serious enough to tell her a marriage proposal.

If you are going to pick her from her home show the best level of courtesy this time, For example, Opening the doors of your car before she sit inside the car, Remember this time she notice your manner & behavior first & it has a direct impact on her, So don’t try to be over smart, don’t use nasty works during the conversation, Don’t call the waiter with stupid words, don’t pass discussing comments to the people sitting besides you. Be polite & soft in your speech. You can keep a ring hidden in your pocket & offer her that ring the while you say “I love you, will you marry me”.

How to treat Life after divorce?

Paul Harris — Tue, 26 Jan 2010 20:30:54 +0000

The philosophy of life reveals that in human relationships the biggest loss in not when a person whom you love dies, but the biggest loss is when relationship dies & people are still alive. Life after marriage often became very difficult when couples find themselves uncooperative to each other in daily matters. They are having discrepancies in mutual understanding that leads to severe stress for both the individuals & other occupants in the house. These stressful situations eventually end with complete separation in the form of Divorce. I believe divorce is the worst word for couples as it is very difficult to recover to normal & happy life after separation. It is a major life change, you will suddenly find yourself lonely to face the different challenges & have to manage all the finances for you & your children’s.

There might be a better life, that welcome you after divorce, now its all depends upon you that how you manage to treat with it. Don’t feel guilty for being divorce & don’t blame yourself or any other for all the mistakes, be optimistic & believe that everything happens for good. In case you need a job, start searching for it, be passionate! This is the time to show the best level of confidence & boldness, honestly don’t waste your time with regret. No matter which cast you belong to, weather it is asian women marriage or the case with a couple in united kingdom. The emotional aspects of divorce remain the same. However there are different aspects for divorce & separation in different societies but bring a human these feelings happens to most of the couples after separation. So all you need to do is to believe that another beautiful life is waiting for you. Life isn’t over; it’s just a new beginning for you.

Addiction Vs devotion?

Paul Harris — Sat, 05 Dec 2009 20:00:35 +0000

One of the common problem that people face these days in relationships is the unknown nature of their attachments, you people might get the point from the title of the post as well, So is very important for you to understand the difference between being in love and bring in addiction with someone. These factors became more important in the case when you want a relationship worth keeping for your lifetime. Love & addiction both are natural things & every human face that but remember there is difference between them. So as a matter of fact love is not when you date with your classmate in a restaurant, give her a rose & express your feelings. One the other hand if a couple is having a relationship that last for more then an year then it is not sure that their relationship is based upon pure love..Devotion to someone & LOVE is unifying & sustainable.

Frankly speaking, being in love & being addicted to someone has same feeling in the beginning. But both have different results at the end, I have seen many people who get very strong emotional attachments with someone because they are addicted with them. Things like russian bride chat & social networks on the internet are the best examples. Chatting with people is addiction not devotion. Remember that true relationships are based on trust, if a person care for you then you can say that he or she is devoted. Always remember that most of the relationships that begins with dating & chatting is all your weak points. So count it as your addiction rather then thinking of it as a pure love.

Be friendly & the world is yours.

Paul Harris — Sun, 08 Nov 2009 04:49:33 +0000

Wise people say that smile is a little thing in itself but the jolly it gives to others is ever lasting, this is totally correct from the psychological point of view. I believe there is nothing good rather then to be the reason of smile on someone’s face. Yes the title of this post says it all. If you are friendly and supportive with people in your attitude. You are making a good approach to get the best value in the society. If you want to be respectful then you must have to respect others, yes you are right this world of give & take. The more you respect others the more you get regards from them, however in some case people try to avoid you but in most of the case you will get good response from your surroundings. There are many examples in the history where people conquer the whole nations & the whole continents just because of their friendly social interaction & supportive deeds.

No matter what type of people you are dealing with, all you need to understand is that every human is respectful. Believe me you will love it when a lot of people starts loving you. But this can only be archive with positive attitude. Don’t even bother to think wrong about anyone even if the person is rude with you. I know this is difficult to do at the beginning but I am sure you will get the fruit soon; you will realize it how delightful is to please someone. So weather you are going for love horse dating or going to join countryside dating. Learn the lesions of love. You will find the world more beautiful.

How to find a perfect life partner?

Paul Harris — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 18:16:39 +0000

The real philosophy of life reveals that a man with women & a women without a man is incomplete. i believe that is the reason why we often hears that beyond every successful man there is a women. So this article is for all singles who are looking for their perfect life partner. i know most of the youngsters nowadays have the problem of love on the fist sight, that have the greater probability of breakups. In my personal experiences, one have to think out of the box while finding the perfect match.

I believe mutual understanding & trust is the main factor that makes the loving relationship to exist in a long run. yes! sacrifices & care is also important for strengthening the relationship. I know you will find a good partner to do dating on the holiday. but today i am talking about choosing the life partner with whom you wish to spend the whole life. different people have different experiences after marriage, some find the perfect wife in an arrange marriage while some couples didn’t established good relationships even in a love marriage. However with the growth in technology & communication techniques it is easy for couples to understand each other before going to bound each other for marriage.

A mere friend will agree with you, but a real friend will argue.i agree with this statement but this didn’t suits all the time with couples, specially after the marriage, husbands usually gets annoyed with useless argue in a daily life. this is one of the reason why most of the love marriages didn’t succeeded in UK. So before making your final decision about your life partner you need to let your partner know about your good & bad habits. Online Singles Dating UK is a good platform to find the perfect life partner for you. At Online dating England you can choose your perfect match so easily. All you need to make a profile with your real attributes & you’re done. invite the member for a date to further understand each other. but remember don’t opt the love at first sight philosophy & think wisely before making any decision. because it not just dating, its a matter of choosing your life partner.