Archive for December, 2009

How to rebuilt trust in a lost relationship?

December 30th, 2009

Misunderstanding often occurs in relationships, few are genuine while most of them are timely, the core reason behind this is lack of communication between the two individuals or group, and even a small mistake can lead you to lose a trusted friend if you fail to communicate in a given circle of time. I am not talking about affairs & dating but want to highlight a collective approach. Especially in couples with arrange marriage this problem is very prominent. There is no way you can hurt the trust of someone if you make yourself open to him or her. So to make relationships strong always try to communicate openly & make a sense of affection & responsibility. I know with the passage of time our preferences, responsibility & way of our thinking changes but this doesn’t mean that we change the tome of our behavior with others.

However rebuilding a lost trust is not easy but one can’t says that its impossible. All you need to do is to think for a while & recall your mistakes. Then take a step forward for humble apologies. You know what kills a good relationship is lie, I know lying has some good results but that is temporary. In long run this is going to make you alone. so always speak truth. Be optimistic. & share everything that caused you to make your friend unhappy. Be transparent in your opinion & don’t keep secrets. In short you have to make sure that the other person has no curiosity for you. Be gentile & polite in your conversation, make it a habit, believe me people will again start loving you.

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Jobs old couples can do perfectly

December 12th, 2009

Its is a general conception that most of the couple at their older ages feels that they are not capable to do any job perfectly, but in actual they can do some tasks very perfectly. yes there are good to care for your newly born or slightly mature kid. i believe they can understand psychology of the child perfectly & so they can teach them all the good habits that even the parents cant do. so this is i believe the best option for couples or specially the housewives who unfortunately are impotent & loves to play with kids.

However the above suggestion is not for people who are happily married recently & are expecting their first baby, yes! old couple can get registered themselves at any foster care & baby care institutions. this also helps in getting yourself accepted as the best & loving citizen. normally old aged people are ignored in most of the society as they need special care by their spouse & grand children. So why not to be be a part of wonderful world with no worries of the world. you will be given some training at the begin so that you can accomplish the job easily. i believe you will love this experiences so it is highly recommend to try it once.

One the other hand this is useful for couples who find it difficult to give their child proper time about guiding them for good habits & help them in their education. i mean you can avail this facility & enrolled your kids with the old couples for better learning & growth.

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Posted in Child Care, Child Discipline, Parenting, Secrets & Advice

Kids and their role models

December 8th, 2009

Kids learn from their role models more actively, this is obvious during the first fifteen years when all the kids are at the stage of learning. They observe others & if they like any of their act, they try to adopt it in their personal life. Most of the parents today are worried about the negative role models kids choose to follow their actions. One of the reason is the electronic media like television where kids get inspired from different movie characters & try to copy their acts in personal life. Another reason is parents themselves when they didn’t give their kids a proper find adolescents engaged in different unethical activities, where their role model is some negative character from a movie. So I believe it’s the responsibility of parents to give their kids aproper time & help them to identify their best role model.

I know parents have more attachments with their child but it is not definite that good parents can act as role model for their child. Kids are continuously observing others & they want their role mode to be to be someone with inspiring attributes. This is one of the reasons why they easily get inspired from different movie stars & other celebrities without knowing him about their personal lives. So it’s all about the time & in the home atmosphere that you give to your child. If you allow your kids to watch television & movies all the time then you can’t expect good behavior from your kid. On the other hand if you often tell your kids about different successful personalities & give t that it is sure that they will get inspired from them come up with wonderful performances in the real life.

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Posted in Child Care, Child Discipline, Parenting

Addiction Vs devotion?

December 5th, 2009

One of the common problem that people face these days in relationships is the unknown nature of their attachments, you people might get the point from the title of the post as well, So is very important for you to understand the difference between being in love and bring in addiction with someone. These factors became more important in the case when you want a relationship worth keeping for your lifetime. Love & addiction both are natural things & every human face that but remember there is difference between them. So as a matter of fact love is not when you date with your classmate in a restaurant, give her a rose & express your feelings. One the other hand if a couple is having a relationship that last for more then an year then it is not sure that their relationship is based upon pure love..Devotion to someone & LOVE is unifying & sustainable.

Frankly speaking, being in love & being addicted to someone has same feeling in the beginning. But both have different results at the end, I have seen many people who get very strong emotional attachments with someone because they are addicted with them. Things like russian bride chat & social networks on the internet are the best examples. Chatting with people is addiction not devotion. Remember that true relationships are based on trust, if a person care for you then you can say that he or she is devoted. Always remember that most of the relationships that begins with dating & chatting is all your weak points. So count it as your addiction rather then thinking of it as a pure love.

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